Relationship Problem:

I’m 23 and my 17-year-old girlfriend broke up with me. She says I treat her like a younger sister. She wants to remain friends but doesn’t want contact for a while. She said her feelings have been declining but she doesn’t want to discuss it. Two weeks ago she was sms-ing romantic messages. I don’t know what I did wrong.

Relationship Advice:

Probably nothing. She may have just changed her mind about what she wanted. No matter how wise a 17-year-old is they haven’t had enough life’s experiences to know what will work for them in the future. They don’t have enough to compare it to. She might not even know why she went cold. This is probably why she doesn’t want to talk about it. Make sure your next girlfriend knows herself well enough to know what she wants long term and that it’s you.

 

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